Thursday, February 14, 2008

Sex talk

I refuse to believe that all men that start random converstaions with women just have one thing on their minds...sex.

Maybe I am in denial, but maybe, just maybe, not all men have just sex on their minds.

It is true that we are sexual beings, and that we have animal instincts and attraction, but perhaps it is not something we constrantly think about and want, even when talking to strangers who we just met.

Can we not have educational, interesting, and intelligent conversations without the question of sex looming over our university graduate heads?

It cannot be so that every time a male approaches a female at a public spot, that all he has on his mind is the possibilty of fu*king her, and that this is all that he wants from her. That it is his final destination and the whole purpose of him approaching her in the first place.

Why is it so hard to believe that maybe a male approaches a female because she looks interesting and intelligent and he just wants to have a lively conversation with her about something, anything, it doesn't have to be something in particular.

Am I simply trying to ignore the truth, that a man will never appoach a woman with the goal of just having an innocent discussion with her?

Pehaps, but I still refuse to believe that completely.

3 comments:

Jen (MahaloFashion) said...

haha your in denial
all roads lead to sex when it comes to men, that's what I've learned haha

Ma said...

:( lol, i know, thats what i've learned as well, but i dont really want to believe that completely, b/c then that means that when the sex has come and gone, that we cannot be friends and have conversations like regular people b/c the sex will be constantly looming in the background...its just sad

Anonymous said...

lol, i do think your in denial! If they can find an intelligent girl they can sustain an educated conversation with, the more likely they are to have these conversations, and then become attracted and then turned on and VOILE sex starts brewing in their minds lol